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Never mind Air BnB – how about this for a ‘working from home’ alternative? We meet the Golden Dominatrix, who gives us an insight into her secret, hedonistic work…

Pasha is a glorious, gorgeous blonde grandmother in her fifties, not that you’d ever know to look at her. She’s a feminist so we’ll stay respectful, but let’s just say her physique puts women half her age to shame. She’s an artist and performer with a string of academic qualifications and is a punk, through and through. She’s also a Dominatrix. Be afraid.

“I am the Golden Dominatrix. I am an artist specialising in pleasure and pain and the fine art of domination and submission. I use theatre, performance, multimedia, and written words, as well as the more traditional avenues of pleasure and pain through the physical experience of BDSM.”

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Pasha – definitely in charge

Tell us a bit about your submissives
My clients are a very diverse group of individuals. They have no typical qualities and cross all classes, education levels, intellectual radius, sizes and shapes. The only thing they share in common is a desire to experience my control over them in some form or other, be that mental and or physical.

Do you Domme them in person or remotely?
I use remote dominance via Skype and web cam as well as mobile phones. I even have a text Domme service which is proving successful and popular for all concerned. The client is issued instruction via their mobile and must complete set tasks in a set time and provide proof that these tasks have been completed. I also invite select clients to experience the art of domination with me in the flesh but these clients would have proved themselves worthy to me prior to invite.

Where do they come from?
I have clients from all over the world. Some do not speak any English at all, simply the language of submission.

What kind of people are they?
My clients need to be confident with their submission; I do not take on inexperienced submissives. I demand a well-rounded client who will not falter at my instruction. My clients are broadminded and liberal and they do exactly as they are told.

Are they all male?
I will work with couples but I do not work with single women at the current time.

What do you get out of it?
I am always exploring my highest level of dominant comfort so there is a challenge involved; how far I can push, what is the ultimate control that I can feel pleasure from. This is exciting as a personal development. If I am working with a client it would always be a business transaction. I consider my work as that of an artist and charge just as an artist would, by the hour plus expenses.

Is this a business transaction they pay for?
Yes generally all domination will be paid for, unless part of a collaborative creative project in a gallery setting or for an art film for example, whereby the submissive was also an artist, as opposed to a client. In a financial arrangement it is essential that the client does not assume any power because of a payment. The payment must never be misconstrued as providing influence or levy. I will not work with a client without full reign and governance.

Is this merely an art form or do you genuinely love doing this?
I started the art of domination purely as an art form as a feminist; to formalize my personal experiences with power and to make sense of my position in the world. I have since developed a great love of domination and it has become who I am.

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Enslaved by the Golden Dominatrix

 

Can you tell us a bit about what you ask your submissives to do?
In person I offer these services; it is not a complete list as that would be impossible. Obviously the remote domination is more task-based but I will have my submissives act out punishments and send me proof.

Whipping, flogging, spanking, chain beatings etc
Feathers, soft play, tickling torture
Hot wax play, lighter play
Water trough, toilet ducking, and submersion in liquids
Kicking, spitting, high heels abuse, thumping, slapping etc
Humiliation through verbal abuse
All forms of corporal punishment, lines, running on the spot etc
Restriction, cuffs etc, leads and straight jacket
Teasing and restriction of orgasm
Sensory deprivation
Pins and needles, scratching
Feminisation
Masks and gags
Restricted breathing
Hair pulling

Do you get them to do housework?!
I do have a couple of clients who enjoy being feminised and made to clean up yes. They are never any good at it and have to be punished.

Is there any particular activity or punishment that’s your favourite?
I like them all but each client is different and excites something unique in my desire to control or dominate them. I may enjoy a particular practice with a particular client because of the relationship I have whilst dominating them.

Does it ever go wrong?
Never. I vet all my clients and I am professional and careful. If things seem to be faltering at any point I end the session immediately. The only time things went badly was when a client’s wife turned up unexpectedly.

Do you use safe words?
Yes the safe word is always agreed on at the start of the session.

Do you have relationships with your subs or is it just a BDSM thing?
In a way the BDSM experience is already a kind of relationship but I have never taken that to a personal level, no.

Do you switch?
Never.

What does your mum think?!
She thinks it is art, and that is what matters.

Long term prospects?
I plan to carry on developing the art of domination for at least 20 more years. Obviously there are opportunities for books and films which are already in production as well as a range of specialist equipment in gold after my hand made golden dildo and strap on.

Is this something you think you’ll always do?
I do hope so.

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